I had the honor of being interviewed by Valerie Friedlander on her Unlimited podcast in an episode titled “Building Confidence Through Boudoir Photography.” I met Valerie a few years ago through mutual friends and have been so impressed with the work she does in her coaching business to help women live their best lives.
Read MoreWhat is boudoir? Why would a woman want this type of photo taken and what are the benefits of doing so? Boudoir photography is popular because it provides an opportunity for women to take control over their bodies, feel confident in themselves and empower themselves. There are many reasons why a woman might want to take part in this type of photo shoot-to make her boyfriend happy, as a gift for her husband or partner, to be proud of her body after pregnancy or weight loss, or just to have some photos taken with great lighting!
Read MoreIf kindness isn't something that comes naturally, remember these tips and try practicing it more often! Many people find themselves happier because they have done kind acts for others without expecting anything back--it only helps both parties involved. Kindness may seem like an idealistic way of improving mental and physical health but it really does work wonders on different levels.
Read MoreDistinguishing erotic from eroticism also helps us understand our own sexuality more deeply, thus enabling us to use our erotic potential without feeling ashamed about it. Eroticism does not imply immorality or sexiness; neither does it mean that everything exhibited is intended solely for physical arousal (although there are Erotic images which one may find arousing). Eroticism is a more formal term. Erotica, on the other hand, is generally used to describe that material featuring or dealing explicitly with sex or eroticism (as distinct from Erotic art).
Read MoreHave you seen the show “Exposure” on Hulu? It’s fabulous and it’s like a cooking show with contestants and judges, except that instead of cooking, the skill is photography!
Read MoreThe topics of love, relationships, and sex have always been shrouded in distorted messages, unhelpful lessons, and unrealistic goals of what a good and successful relationship "should" look like. However, a "date" was pretty straightforward. Back before everything went down, dating probably consisted of picking up your date from their home or apartment and taking he or she out for a fancy dinner or a movie. Generally, dating involved going out with someone and spending time with them doing things you both had interest in doing together in addition to spending time alone getting to know one another.
Read MoreIt is important to speak up for yourself in order to get what you want and need. However, it can be hard because we are afraid of upsetting or offending others. There are some ways that we can avoid this happening when having a discussion with someone else: think about how your words will affect them, consider alternatives before acting, ask why you're speaking (do I really need to say something?), and practice makes perfect! If all these things don't work out the way they should, then talk to somebody who may have advice on how best proceed. Finally, if another person is bullying you or making fun of you behind your back; stop yourself from doing so and tell them kindly but firmly not do it again!
Read MoreI had the amazing opportunity to be interviewed this week by Deanna Kuempel on her podcast Label Free.
Read MoreA huge part of our job as professional photographers is making sure the client is comfortable with their bodies so they can relax and feel beautiful during the shoot. We show this by setting up psychologically safe environments where what we capture are real expressions as opposed to "posed" ones.
Read MoreConflict is an essential part of relationships. Conflict will inevitably happen due to different backgrounds, different personalities and even different perspectives on situations that the two people go through together. Conflict can help two people learn new things, learn about each other and even grow closer together.
Read MoreChange is inevitable but with a patient and thought out approach it can be a period of growth and a source to draw inspiration from for years to come.
Read MoreThere are many things that make us unique and beautiful such as our personalities, talents, and the way we carry ourselves. We shouldn't forget about them just because there's someone out there prettier than us or more successful than us; after all, life isn't about competition-it's about being who we really are and not to worry too much about what people think of our looks.
Read MoreTaking charge of how we say no can be one of the most empowering things we do for ourselves—and others. If you change how you communicate with yourself, it also changes the way others communicate with you (since they're mirrors for us).
Read MoreAre you a boudoir photographer and thinking about promoting your business website? Many boudoir photographers have blogs. They are a great way to attract and connect with your boudoir clientele, show off samples of your work, improve boudoir photography skills and give advice on boudoir posing. Here's why boudoir blogging for boudoir photographers like you is the key to success!
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Do you have trepidation about a boudoir shoot because you don't feel like you're good enough? One question that keeps coming up is whether someone can pull off the boudoir look if they don't have a swimsuit-model-perfect body. I see women of all shapes and sizes. I've shot people who are just starting to feel comfortable in their own skin again after having kids, and I've shot extremely fit girls who work out three times a week. All of them can pull off boudoir beautifully because it's not about looking like someone else!
Whether you're shooting naked for yourself or planning on taking your skills outside of the comfort zone, naked photography allows women's sexuality to shine bright without any shame or fear involved! But remember, there are still people out there who might not like naked images OR who may even find naked photographs offensive. The more naked photography becomes mainstream though, the less likely these things will happen! So keep showing off those beautiful naked female forms everybody!
Read MoreErotic photography is a form of art that explores the erotic and sensual. It can be used to explore fantasies or create new ones, as well as for artistic expression. It's most often associated with nude photography, but any subject matter that deals with sexuality could be considered erotic--even if it's clothed. The term "erotic" in this sense means "intensely pleasurable."
Read MoreWhen there is a disagreement in your team about how to proceed with a project, do you try to convince them why they should agree with you? Most people instinctively try and win an argument. They attempt to convince others that they are right-and the other person is wrong. Does this habit get you what you want?
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It's OK to enjoy yourself, your life and the pleasures of life. As much as we argue that happiness comes from within, it doesn't mean it's not part of well being or well-being because well-being includes all aspects of your quality of life – physical, psychological and social well-being.
For boudoir pictures, what do you do with them? What is the purpose of boudoir pictures to you? Is it for your partner's eyes only or are boudoir photography something that all married couples should embrace? Should boudoir photo shoots also serve as bachelorette party ideas and sexy wedding anniversary gift ideas when you want to spice things up in the bedroom?
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