Should You Share Photos from Your Boudoir Shoot On Your Social Media?

I love to share photos from my clients' shoots (with their approval of course)! I even love to share my own boudoir photos online. However, I know that it makes some women nervous to have photos of themselves out there on social media, especially if they are revealing and/or semi-nude.

It's an individual choice whether or not you want to share their photos online. You can always choose not to share and just keep them for yourself to appreciate!

Here are five things to consider before sharing your boudoir photos online:

1. How will this photo affect your children/family/friends? First, I'll get on my soapbox and say that it's an outdated notion that sexuality is dirty, shameful or embarrassing. It's not, it's actually very beautiful. However, if you think this way then it might make sense for you to avoid sharing photos that are sexually suggestive and/or revealing on your social media accounts. It's more complicated than that though.

For example, even if your relationship with your family is great now, what will happen if they say something judgmental or hurtful about your sexuality?  If you have kids, how will this effect them and their own development/sexuality? Consider having conversations first, rather than having them be surprised.

2. What would happen if photos of you in a revealing outfit or semi-nude were to be seen by people you know? If any of your exes, bosses or coworkers saw them, how would that make you feel? If there would be any negative repercussions, it's best to prepare for that possible effect. Or reconsider sharing. Or forget them.

3. Could your boudoir photos negatively impact your future career or opportunities (for example, if you are a candidate for political office)? On one hand we've had political careers in the past be hobbled by old revealing photos. However in the most recent years most people are acting like grown ups and there is much more acceptance of sexuality and sensuality.

4. How does this photo make you feel? A litmus test for sharing is to ask yourself, does having this photo shared online make you feel uncomfortable. If yes, then consider not sharing it. Not in any way that will hurt or shame you but just something to think about if you are going to share your photos on the internet.

5. What do you want to say with this photo? As much as I love to see women feeling proud and empowered by their sexuality, I also want them to get the most out of this experience. Meaning share your photos with people who can relate or sympathize...not just random strangers on the internet! Make sure you are sharing with people who will encourage you and support you, not harass or judge you.

I personally have embraced boudoir and sharing my own photos online and I think it's been a positive thing for me-- both in terms of my self-image, fulfillment of this experience but also in the way I connect with other women. Sometimes just saying "Hey! We're all awesome!" is important.  To each their own!

Let me know your thoughts or if I missed something in the comments below!